Venus at odds with natal Mars

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Wanting to be close while finding them irritating means impulse is interfering with judgement. Defer both defining the relationship and ending it until after this stretch.

In detail

Transit Venus in challenging aspect to natal Mars, about five days under a 3-degree orb at roughly 1 degree a day. Venus wants closeness and accord while Mars wants advance and precedence, and a hard angle puts the two demands on stage in turn, so attraction and rejection alternate and the same person is wanted and pushed away within a single day. Against the soft angle, where both point one way, the reading here is that intensity does not indicate fit. Physical impulse and long-range intention are running on separate lines this week.

FAQ

How long does this push and pull last?
Venus covers about 1 degree a day, so a 3-degree orb gives roughly five days. Being longer than a ten-hour lunar swing is why it gets taken for a genuine verdict on the relationship.
Can a strong pull be treated as evidence of fit?
No. A hard angle puts attraction and rejection on stage in turn, so intensity indicates tension rather than compatibility, and impulse and long-range intention are separate lines this week.

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